Our visit to Lakewood Cabins started off reasonably well but went downhill severely, to the point I did not feel safe, ended up putting a bench under the cabin's front door and ensured all windows were locked. My actions were a direct result of the confrontational, aggressive manner the on-site cabin manager (Dave) had toward my husband and my girlfriend's husband when he accused them of being in "violation" of the rental contract. Which is a false accusation, per the air b n b contract my husband agreed to at the time of his booking, no rules were broken. Any house rules, limitations, or local ordinances should be outlined specifically in the initial booking and not tried to be added and subsequently enforced after the fact. Managerial feedback: If you do approach a guest you feel is in violation, I suggest taking a moment to assess the situation, and then approach them in a calm, diplomatic and hospitable manner as confronting aggressively puts individuals on the defensive and makes them feel attacked and question their personal safety. My experience with the cabin... Cabin 7 was one of the nicer cabin options available (nearly $400 a night) and had glowing reviews, and I feel short changed that we did not have the same experience. The bed was smaller than expected, and while it was labeled a queen it only measured 59" x 79" and the metal frame creaked with every move. Additionally, the toilet kept kicking on to refill the water tank every hour or so, both sounds were disruptive to sleep and our relaxation. Also the cabin manager lives in the front cabin (very close to Cabin Seven) and in our experience he was very aware of when we came and went. It made us very comfortable as mentioned below. I would highly recommend doing your research and reviewing all the yelp reviews, even the ones that might be filtered out, prior to booking at Lakewood Cabins. A recap of our evening.... I should preface, this is the first time my husband and I have gotten away solo since the arrival of our daughter two years ago and we desperately were looking to relax. We felt Big Bear was just the place, particularly in early Fall. This is also the first time in a long while that we've been able to gather sans-children, with my brother and sister-in-law and our close family friends, who also have young children. We were having a lovely evening and had enjoyed dinner at Peppercorn Grille followed by a horse-drawn carriage ride around the village. We wanted to continue catching up so we mentioned we had a cabin nearby with a fireplace and could continue there, we'd just need to pick up a couple duraflame logs. My girlfriend and I drove to the cabin and I parked in our designated spot, per the instructions Dave, the cabin manager, provided at check-in. My brother and sister in-law (who is 7 months pregnant and lives with her husband an hour away) followed behind in their car and parked on the street. My husband and my girlfriend's husband went to the market to get the duraflame logs. The four of us waited in the cabin for them to return and enjoyed light conversation. We were not drinking alcohol out of solidarity for my pregnant sister-in law and husband and I had an early morning hike. About 30 minutes later (around 9:30 pm) my husband and my girlfriend's husband returned with some groceries and then went back to the car to retrieve the box of fire logs. All of us indoors noticed how long this second trip was taking them and I got up and looked out the front door to witness the cabin manager yelling at my husband and friend while holding up his iPad trying to show them something on the screen. Knowing they are fully capable of handling escalated situations, as they both do so for a living, I went back inside and let my visitors know the manager seemed to be arguing with them about something. A few minutes later my husband and friend came back to the cabin and gave us an overview of what was happening. All of us were in disbelief at how unprofessionally Dave handled the situation of us having visitors. He angrily threatened to "call the cops" and tow our vehicles, to which my husband encouraged him to do so, and subsequently went back to confirm Dave had in-fact called them. Dave was not being reasonable and was agitated and having law enforcement present would be the best course of action. I was so unsettled that I actually packed all of my things in preparation to leave. We were grateful when the San Bernardino County Sheriff arrived to help mediate the situation. The Deputy was respectful and professional and his arrival thankfully meant we didn't have to interact with the cabin manager again. The Deputy advised us of a city ordinance for street parking and recommended we move our visitors' cars to the public lots, which we did promptly, and we told him our friends would be leaving within the hour as one couple had their own hotel accommodations and other lived about an hour away. I have traveled extensively and normally stay at higher-end hotels but Big Bear is small, rustic and doesn't have those options. In my experience, it is a reasonable expectation to be able to have visitors in your room so long as they do not stay overnight and you keep the noise level low. Apparently the host, Jenny, who lives in LA and has Dave manage all the on-site operations, does not allow visitors of any kind but this was not relayed to us in our booking. I was literally trembling and anxious from the situation and once our visitors left I made sure to lock all the windows and put a bench under the door, so I would hear it move should anyone try to enter. Neither my husband or I could sleep well, I actually was jarred awake in the middle of the night thinking I heard the bench move and someone was trying to enter the cabin, my husband assuring everything was OK. A couple of hours later I woke to my husband having a dream and audibly arguing with someone, likely a result of evenings events. This situation put a black cloud on the trip, where its intention was to relax and recharge, and we were left depleted of energy and enjoyment. Out of fear of retaliation, we videoed the cabin's condition when we checked-out (almost an hour early) to have documentation. We sent the host a message on the air b n b app letting her know we checked out and wanted to coordinate a phone call with her to discuss, she has yet to respond, but was able to comment on my husband's air b n b review and yelp review. Additionally, she left the derogatory review on my air b n b account and I wasn't even the one who booked it, but that's a whole different matter.…